I mean really, is my story so bad? Is it a nightmare? Is my story one to read and think "holy fk, at least I am not there?" Is it? I mean is your W blowing a dude on any given Monday somehow better than on Christmas, or Halloween, or your Birthday? C'mon!

Fking is fking, year, month, hour, day...does it matter? Does it?

Have you all read anything in this place? It might be just about the sex, it might be about mental health, or it might be about how you were horrible to live with, and it might not be on any of that. If you are a dude who's woman is out to pasture, it most likely is not about the sex alone (it may be and you should explore that with your mind!). It is most likely because either you sukx it as an attention paying affirmation giving male homo sapien - or - your W is also MLC - or - your W wanted some strange.
One of the things I did was make a list...a list about what hurt me the most about my W being away from me. Her fking another guy was like number 4 or 5. Her telling me she did not want to see me ever again was number 1. But I never heard that. Sex is sex. Your dog can do it. Get over that part of it or your heart will never heal. Channel your inner Surfer...and by that I mean warrior, b/c he is one. Go over and read his harsh a$s sht, it is spot on.


"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies.
BD: Feb '16
D: Mar '17
Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing.
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