My Wife Walked Out 6

[RSG]

Thank you Mach! To be frank, at first it was to see my progress and where things stand. However, since you had me think about it more it could ALSO be to put another drop in her love tank. That means I'd have to be more selective about WHEN I'd do it (ie at an appropriate time rather than just finding an opening).

Coconut and Doodler. YOU ARE EVIL. I may be short and thin, but as a wise man once put it.....I Like Big Butts and I cannot lie!


Had a great session with my therapist. She hears the progress I've seen and thinks keeping it slow is very smart at this time. She also agrees with slowly but surely integrating soft, platonic, quick touching. She did say one thing I need to do is to continue to work on direct communication. It doesn't show interest or chasing to ask, in a non-threatening or accusatory way, why she didn't come to the Dr for example.

Also, she noted that as communication continues to soften I could branch out and throw out an open ended question in which she can reveal more about herself. One challenge she had for me was, as this continues SHE will begin to ask questions about me. Shutting them down won't really continue our progress, so try to think of how much you're willing to share and WHAT you're willing to share.

She asked about my cooking, and was very pleased to see I continue to do things that make me happy and trying new things.

She stressed patience, which I noted I'm working really hard on. Continue to celebrate the baby steps, keep doing what works, and keep doing the things that make you happy.

Really good to hear, especially on such a stressful day. Rushing all day. from 6AM to 6PM I felt like I was in a rush. Every part of my life is a rush. Except one lol.