Amazing how many things we have in common, it's basically the same situation, the age of our children, your wife called the cops on you, I also have a mobile app business, and a lot more. This is how I look at it. To me nothing has changed. I still go to work, see the kids and try to grow the business. I act as if my wife went on a vacation abroad for a few years and I am alone with the kids. I just keep telling them that I love mommy to calm them down, not to win her back, and that she might come back in a few years. Absolutely nothing is set in stones, the divorce is just a piece of paper. She decided to get divorced suddenly one day and she might decide to come back to her senses someday suddenly as well. I don't think it would be good if she wanted to move back with me because I enjoy my space too much right now. As long as she doesn't find another man there is still a lot of hope and if I show her that I am a rock and that I am committed to the family no matter what, she might come back to her senses even faster. Only time will tell, right now I am doing good. Hugs, Cld