Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #3]

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ForGump, seriously, this does not matter. My W forgot my birthday every year - she would get the month right, but always have to ask. And, on our anniversary this year, she fked her OM. That was how I found out she had been lying to me about not still seeing him. I found this place the next day. It doesn't matter man. Lower the expectations = lower the disappointment.

Go out. Get out of your house. Get out. See friends. See anyone. Speak to anyone in public and act happy even if you are not. See what happens. Dude, I was so down in the dumps one day leaving my apartment to walk my dog. A HUGE sized woman, 1easily 15 years older than me was walking by to her car and all dressed up. She had a scowl on her face, and I mean one of terrible levels, looking right at the ground. I walked by and said "hey, not sure where you are going, but you look very nice tonight." BThat was all it took...she smiled, perked up, said "thank you. I hope you have a great night too 'sugah' (black women in the south, love their use of sugah)". She gave it back and it did not heal me, but it felt good brother. Get the fk out man and meet people! Anyone!