MLC, WAW or WW?? Who really knows? Help...pls

[ROE]

Hi Linda! Good to hear from you again. Thank you for your take on MLC. I will certainly read up on Sandi2's threads. I've read up on a lot of her posts as a Vet and have found her insight to be very insightful and have found that a lot of her information fits well into my sitch as well. Probably as much my own faults for wearing the "Nice Guy" suit and digging a deeper hole for myself. The fact there is an OM is proof of her waywardness. And some of what I have experienced in her spewing and actions seem to come from MLC behavior I have read about but,,, I am no expert not do I claim to be one.

So, how do I read her current actions? One minute she openly defies and disrespects with her interactions w/OM then later in the day she will go out of her way to make sure I know her meeting him was platonic and strictly innocent. Even after I show that "I don't care" she continues to want me to hear her. She also has treated me nicer at home than she has in a long time. Maybe these are no more than her trying to keep the peace and be civil, again I really don't know?? ((Shrug))

I want to tell you something that happened today that has me just baffled and confused:

As you know W wants a D and has mocked and openly ridiculed me for not giving up. Even went as far as to talk down to me and tell me she "wonders if I can even understand plain simple English". That was 4wks ago. Anyway, today she sends me a text to let me know that her work is having a "Health Screening Clinic" for next yrs health insurance open enrollment. I've been on her insurance the past few yes as her plan is cheaper and far better than our plan at my work. So for someone who a few days or wks ago was so adamant about D and spewed her disdain for me and wants a D so badly and can't make it happen fast enough,??? Why does she send me a text reminder to attend the health screen clinic for "next" yrs health insurance open enrollment? What?? This makes no sense. I've already approached my HR about our enrollment in the case of D. What is the meaning behind this? Please chime in and give me your take on this.

Thanks, ROE