I never imagined being here still, but I am thankful that I found this community and the support that it has provided.
Short recap for any new folks that may just be joining.
BD in early Feb. Wife goes from asking for time and space because she has lost all feelings for everyone, to full on tantrum mode and following a script that you will start to see here in many a sitch. I went into full depressive mode and lost my way and bearings for some time. WAW moves out in mid April D was supposed to be quick as she wanted it done ASAP as she hit her stride with he angry mode. But it has not gone quick, and I am not sure of the specific reasons why, other than she did not know what she needed and had some expectations that I did. I am now at a point of calm as it relates to WAW and current sitch with my daughters. But I am in fight internally with my own demons that I am working to exorcise and move forward to be the best Super Hero I can be in my own story for me, and my daughters. Details are in the threads and I hope there are nuggets of info from my journey and or from those that have been there for me as I stumbled. it is not a place that I would wish you were in, but it is a place of safe and support and I have not found a better place out there for this journey.
Remember this quote if your are an LBS as in it, is the secret to surviving and thriving this challenging situation in our life.
"The Secret of Change Is to Focus All of Your Energy, Not on Fighting the Old, But on Building the New."-Socrates
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
