Stay the course, give her plenty of space and time to heal. Have faith in the process because it does work. Keep the focus on you for now.
Sooooo, what process would that be your refer to? Not the DB process? Those books barely touch the MLC paradigm.
Thank you for your comments though. If I gave the impression that I was attached to a timeline, it was not intended. The last time her and I were separated it was for 9 years, but we were separated for very different reasons. I can go into it if requested, but it really comes down to geography and technology.
Wonka - you thought a 7 year old was 3? That is truly an example of a mindset. I might guess you and I have a similar line of work from your comments, but perhaps not. Part of my role is as a PM, but I do not view her as one of my projects. In a day by day role at this time and making the plays as best as I can. Feel like I am in secure point of detachment, which still has its highs and lows, but I remain within those boundaries. Good analogy though and very much appreciated.
I should have moved here earlier. So much of what I have gotten thus far helps me understand why some of the things in the newcomer thread kind of fell flat for me.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
