ForGump - It depends I think on where both of you are on your journey. I've not been on the road that you are one right now - in some ways I wish that I could be because it would give me some closure.

It's harmless and keeps things friendly. I believe rule #1 of D is "don't be an @ss". But it's OK to have an off day and say "no thanks I'm not up to it right now". Even though conventional wisdom says to be upbeat and confident I feel that it's OK to have an off day. It's also OK to tell your W no. You are your own man who is hopefully still proudly wearing clean boxers.

Try to do something today that "just for you". If it involves S8 or D12 that's great too. But be "selfish" for once.

On BD
H52, W50
T27, M26
S21, D23
BD-9-Mar-16
D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18
I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good.
But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells