I also though I would add this in case you read through my thread. At one point I told my w to leave. She didn't, she actually informed me I couldn't kick her out (she researched). I was trying to show her I would not stand for an A. In hindsight I was trying to control something I couldn't. I should've retread doormat tactics. She hasn't forgotten about it, she has brought it up and now I can see I created another hurdle if she ever decides to reconcile.
