Unfortunately, I did look at the cell phone account this morning and saw her and the OM were texting a lot.
Eagle, I know this is still new to you and your emotions are raw but ^^^ this is not healthy for you. As a former super snooper I can understand the need to know but all it did for me was keep me angry and engaged with my XW. Once I realized I had no control over it and stopped I was able to detach more and more from her. I know it's hard but you have to try. Hang in there.
There is a difference between knowing the path & walking the path. – Morpheus