Once I realized she was texting him I would start to walk up behind her and my son to say something to him. She would feel my prescence and quickly put her phone down. This went on for about 30 minutes and I was having fun with it. I never let on that I knew she was texting the OM, but I would just come up behind them every so often and she would have to scramble to put the phone down. I was wondering what she thought. Did the danger excite her? Was she scared of being caught? Was she annoyed with me? I guess I will never know, but I actually thought it was funny.
Eagle11 - just a word of caution on these "games". I too would do things that I knew would cause W some discomfort having a private lol to myself at the time - occasionally shared here too. The problem that I have is that I then get wrapped up in checking to see "if" she reacted in the way I expected her to and then think of other things I could do to provoke a reaction.
It's a dangerous path, not so much for her but for you because it makes it harder for you to detach and it gives you the illusion that you can control your W's actions when the reality is far from there.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
