Confused on What to Do

[Eagle11]

Today is my W 36 birthday. I didn't tell her happy birthday this morning. My kids don't know its her birthday so nobody said anything. I didn't get her anything but i got her something from the kids so I will have them give it to her tonight. I'm not really sure how I should act about her birthday. I guess I will wish her a happy birthday tonight.

Unfortunately, I did look at the cell phone account this morning and saw her and the OM were texting a lot. She was sitting on the couch with our S6 and I was in the kitchen (our living room and kitchen are connected). Once I realized she was texting him I would start to walk up behind her and my son to say something to him. She would feel my prescence and quickly put her phone down. This went on for about 30 minutes and I was having fun with it. I never let on that I knew she was texting the OM, but I would just come up behind them every so often and she would have to scramble to put the phone down. I was wondering what she thought. Did the danger excite her? Was she scared of being caught? Was she annoyed with me? I guess I will never know, but I actually thought it was funny.

I went to my first therapist appointment and really enjoyed it. The therapist seemed really engaged and concerned, which I felt was good. I told her my story and she gave comments similar to ones I have received here. I made another appointment for next Friday morning where she said we will start working on me.