I'm glad you got away for a bit and enjoyed yourself w/your friends. Sometimes you have to do this in order to recharge the battery.
I am thrilled that your S14 is going to be coming to stay w/you over the holiday weekend. I just hope and pray that the bridge can be mended and the two of you can enjoy the weekend together.
Just remember, if you get angry, either walk away or count to 10 before you say anything that may come back to haunt you later.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.