What should I be doing (Working toward D 9)

[Coconut]

RSG, it's a nice thought, but just before I signed the listing agreement I threw out the question if she really wanted to go that route, selling the house is the first step of D and she didn't even blink. It's more an issue of I have always taken care of everything, and She wants me to do this too, but I'm no longer the Man of the house, just the man of me and My S.

Rose, I told her if we use her friend as the realtor then it's her baby, or we could use a neutral realtor and I would be involved... She chose this route. I'm not trying to control her, I'm just letting her know what's going to happen if she doesn't get busy, and she's still just sitting on her Azz.

All that needs to happen is for her to clean the house so her friend can come over and take pictures. She had a 4 day weekend, no cleaning. She came home from work yesterday and watched TV for 3 hours before heading out, no cleaning. She's stalling, I don't know why but I haven't said a word since making it clear that I won't be here too much longer to help out.