Glad you have gotten to the point you feel you can close the door and not care about it for now.
It happens. I go up and down too but havent dropped the rope yet. Felt like it today as she picked up the dog and all I cared about was my D7 hanging out the window giving me a kiss...didn't even notice my STBX. She was glaring at me when i looked over like "don't you see me". And when she left I got back to putting more stuff together in the house and didn't miss a beat....
Hopefully this works for you and its time to move on. Agree divorce is just a piece of paper and pain in the wallet for the most part...plus some stress
If you can keep a logical relationship with your WAW for the kids, not feel a thing anymore, and can move on you are on a great path...hope it continues!
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
