Bea,
It is always nice to hear from you! I guess, as he makes progress, things are finally settling and peace is restored?
I totally understand why you would not live with who he is now.
That was my mind reset button every time I did not know what to do anymore. " Would I chose this man, the one he is today, as a partner? ". The answer was always the same, to this day.

We keep the good memories of the creation of our family and we can only hope that their MLC did not affect our children to the point of having their own MLC in their future. That is my prayer to God !

You are an amazing lady Beatrice! Thank you for sharing with us.