Confused on What to Do

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I wish I knew more about the OM.

No. No you don't.

I used to play golf at least once a week but I haven't done that since this all started. I have gotten to the driving range, but don't really have the desire to play right now.

I didn't have a desire to eat or do anything, and that is...bad. Go out and do something even if you don't feel like it. Get out. You have to or you will turn into a pathetic mess.

There are a few guys that I play golf with, but I haven't seen them since this started.

Reconnect.

Playgrounds are a great way to meet new people as well. You'll have kids in common and who knows maybe you're kids will make new friends too.

I guess I just feel like such a loser sitting her letting her do whatever she wants

Feeling like a doormat right?
Read up on the doormat thread in Cadet's post.
You are not a loser.
You are NOT a loser.

What exactly could/can you do besides give up on the marriage?
Nothing you can do will force her, as you are discovering to snap her out of this.

You will need to find some hobbies and start doing them, if you haven't already.

Yes, this please.

I'll leave you with this thought, remember that friend of yours? The one whose girlfriend broke up with him and how he just moped around all the time and was depressed all the time?
Did you want to be around that guy after awhile?

Project confidence, be confident. Fake it until you make it.
When you look in the mirror, like that guys staring back, envy him.