What should I be doing (Working toward D 9)

[Coconut]

I'm getting pretty frustrated with her, it's been a month and a half since she agreed that we need to sell the house, and all she's done so far is sign the listing agreement with the realtor. The realtor is a friend of hers so I told her that is her baby and she needs to set up the times to get pictures done and provide the information for the listing.

So after a month and a half of nothing I am getting really pissed because I'm ready to move on, but I think I handled myself pretty well. I just told her that I was concerned about the time it's taking to get the house listed, and that she needs to understand that I've applied for a lot of jobs out of state, and when I get offered a position, I'm taking it. That will mean that I will not be able to continue to pay for half the house..

I'm not sure if she has some ulterior motive, like thinking I'll just stay and pay half the mortgage for however long it takes to sell, but hopefully she gets the message, because I'll let the house go into foreclosure before I allow her to trap me by using the house.

I still mourn what could have been, and I'm not happy my M is ending, but at least I know that coconut will be ok, I'm excited about the adventures that lie ahead, albeit sad that i'll be going on the adventure alone.