Me and Midlife Wife and Midlife

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Thank you all for the feedback - 2 for, 1 against. If it helps, this was not something I had planned to call up and say. I would wait for her to make contact and then drop it in the middle of conversation. I do also realize that my chances of success here are slim.

eric - correct, I do not empirically know this. I am basing this of statistical or clinical data I have read on the matter - there is a better way to introduce a child to the OM/OW and a not so better way, having a partner over for the night does not fall under the right way. He is 4 so I can try to offer that to him, but unlikely he could speak for himself in such a way.

I have been in this position before, but not w/ OM coming to house. This all just began last Wed night and happened again over the weekend.

Again, it may be different had she not told me what a "loser" she thought this guy was, her words not mine.

I will consider what has been offered, but I also realize, there does not seem to ever be a right or wrong answer to such things.