My W is so stubborn and I know she's frustrated because her entire family and about 50% of her friends are telling her she's making a mistake.
The problem is the other 50% of her friends are encouraging her wayward behaviors...Which is super messed up. Especially as I know a few of these friend had come to us with their marriage problems in the past and we always encouraged them to speak with their H or W and work things out between them. And now that roles are reversed they're setting her up with her now ow/gf and encouraging her to just hurry up and leave me. Because "you can do better" "You deserve better"
I get that they are her friend and all buuutttt that doesn't seem to be the kind of behavior friends should be exhibiting.
My friends have been very supportive and encouraging of me no matter what I've decided to do and I know one of my best friends outright DISAGREES with me and she still encourages me to do what I think it best for me...
It just blow my mind.
I still really don't know what to do about that letter though. Like I said I feel like either way has benefits and negatives...
W:32 M:26 T:5 yrs M: 3 yr BD: JUN 2016 W Moved out: early JUL 2016 W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016 EA: 06/16? PA: 07/16 Moved in w/ ow: 07/16 D final: 10/16