Agreed. When they leave, you feel like you need them. Because a huge part of your life has been ripped away, for reasons you don't really understand. My wife said a few weeks after she left "why should I stay and fake it just so you can be happy?"

This is where people stress getting a life, staying active and finding new things. It takes the edge off, and keeps your focus on you. If you have a child, think of it like Earth. The Moon is in your gravity field, so you "take care of it." You can't worry about dust storms on Mars. Weird analogy, but it makes sense lol

Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.