I agree with Job, in fact this is what I did, I said I would rather have the boys on nights you have plans with OM.
Something to that effect.
Of course some diplomacy might be required in how you state this. I sort of like how Job stated it, but you know your wife better...even in this MLC situation than anyone.



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