Thanks job, well he has told the kids he's moving to be nearer as my friend stated its a village with back roads so the mount of time probably won't be much different. I can't imagine it's cheaper as he's moving into the same county as us which is a more expensive county.
As time goes on even if he wanted to come back I'm starting to wonder if I could ever forgive him. Personally I think he's living with massive regret but he's stuck.
The holiday he took the kids on.....the kids don't speak particularly highly of it They don't speak particularly highly of ow...indifference is the word that comes to mind........don't think all is as rosey as I've previously thought...and yes that gives me some peace of mind.
So he's got her....he's lost the everyday relationship with his kids, his home, his self respect......which bit is he happy with....he got the girl!! He had the girl....all he has now is a mediocre replacement at best
