AndrewP -- that's the goal. I feel like I need to model kind, compassionate actions toward my W so the kids see what that looks like, but I think I overdo it and stray close to the doormat at times when I do. Need to figure out the right balance.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)