"CT, I'm very sorry about your S meeting the OM. I know from your thread how hard that was for you. I can imagine how much that would impact me as well and it's not a happy thought. The way you are right now, is precisely what I'd like to get to. An honest man who will honestly be ok without her. I find myself caring less and less about what she has going on daily, but I'm not sure if that's detaching or just becoming numb to it. Maybe they're the same thing..."
Numb and detaching are not the same thing to me. If you read my old threads, you will see how much the apathy bothered me. So you maybe cycling into it. Now I am detached and it feels more like there is something I want and have always wanted. But my wants in this life are not my needs. This is very different from thinking another person is someone I do not care about.
I hope this clears it up. Stay on target sir.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
