I looked at old texts from a few days before this all started happening and it was just lies lies lies. I feel extreme anger towards her and I don't know how to quell it.
She is leaving for trivial reasons. Things that could easily be worked on. She is breaking up our family to appease her own convoluted fantasy needs. It is hard to not be angry and I am not great at hiding it by any means.
Welcome to the anger phase ???
According to YOU, her reasons are trivial...
According to YOU...things could be easily worked out.
Wait, worked out using YOUR fix ?
Or HER fix for the problems ??
Thing is...she IS working things out.
Her way, her time, her pace...
She has feel comfortable inside of her own skin in order to be in any relationship.
Thing is...YOU have to be comfortable inside of YOUR skin to be in any relationship....
Do you really think that EITHER of you are ready for that right here, right now ???
You have things to work on (by your own admission)....
So work on them, and you. Be so busy working on them that anything that she does is secondary...
Did I mention that all WA's lie ????
Oh yeah....that's all part of that " don't believe what you hear" thing....
Originally Posted By: Great
I told her that I didn't care to speak with her unless it was regarding business (kids, money). I don't want to make small talk. This morning I just told her I didn't know how Corky was doing (dog) and that she was getting more tests done. I am terrified that my dog got nicotine poisoning from the W being irresponsible with ecig juice while she was packing yesterday.
I don't know if my dog made it through the night or not. I will find out soon when the vet calls.
