I HEAR and feel your utter LOVE for your S. Get it. I am there with mine (and D).
Please do me ONE favour for him, but mostly you. Stop giving a sh!t about her. THIS is detachment. LOVE her - yes. NEVER stop hat. But in a man's mind, or mine for definate, you need to think - "fukc her. I can't be arsed thinking about her 'poor wiring' anymore. I'm not an electrician. I can't rewire her. She will have to rewire herself" - whilst having fun!!!!! Win win dude. Win win.
Get out there, the door to your dirty, dark and scary prison is unlocked and open. You just need to step outside. The sun is shining out there, there's a beach, ice cream and the hottest babe that will adore you. If your W comes to you find so be it but then you choose. But for fukcs sake don't stay in there! It stinks of p!ss in there (your cell) ..... worst of all, your S can smell it!
Let him smell the sweet scent of a Dad that rides the horse and is not the horse. Saddle up cowboy!
Come on man. I am waiting to see you do this. I'm standing outside your cell and am telling you get the fukc out. AND NOW!
Surfer.
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