Thank you Job for getting back to my question; 'reconcile' means the MLCer eventually forgive the one or both parents, will the bother be included ? It takes time and courage, doesn't it ?

He went to a therapist after he had me bombed(Sep.2014), they talked about nothing but how bad I was and the 'troubles' that our marriage caused ... I personally talked to his therapist for just one time, she told me all the problem could come from husband's dysfunctional family. However she can not had husband convinced of that and things just went wild immediately...

I pass the test of French (level I) and did great on that, I'm going to next level, there will be 14 weeks of lesson and will be started in two weeks (I'm very excited)