Cherry, h is filing. Working on me

[Phoebe]

Cherry, you are one kick-ass woman. Managing everything you do while dealing with a difficult pregnancy? Amazing. I am behind on your stitch, and I'm sorry that I haven't been keeping up this last week. Know that I am out here, across the pond, pulling for you every single day.

I think that WSs are too involved in their own lives while in the thick of their crises to even really consider the wreckage they are leaving behind. Maybe someday they will figure it out, maybe not. It doesn't matter because it doesn't change a single thing that we need to do ourselves, which is to figure out a way to live our own lives to the fullest, either with or without them.

I understand that one would think that they'd at least be sensitive to their own children, but I think that this is all part of their crisis. They need to create distance from every part of their lives, including their own little ones, in order to go forward with what they are doing. It's sad, but all the more reason why it's important to take the focus totally off the WS and put it on what matters most - your family unit, be it a single unit, or an extended family unit (like myself), or a parent-child(ren) unit.

You are an amazing woman, Miss C. You've got this!

((((((((((Cherry))))))))))