I don't get how ExW mind works. We exchanged the boys today and she invited me to come for lunch with them. I agreed and we sat and ate when we left I said thank you for lunch and goodbye to the boys and then a few minutes later I get a text saying thank you for having lunch with us.

I replied thank you for having me do it she replied no problem it was nice the boys deserve for us to be able to sit together.

I don't know if she's reaching out temperature again for getting over her anger at me or what the Hells going on I don't agree that sitting and playing all Neicy nice is the best especially in front of the boys because I don't want to give them any false hopes. We had only been sitting there few minutes S4 pipes up and says mommy do you still live at daddy's house.

So yes it's nice I suppose. They don't need to think we are one big happy family. Ticks me off

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.