So, today. Met at 9:30 for dropoff. We talked for a few minutes about S, Labor day, his birthday the next week, his assignments at school, etc. She said she'd send me a picture of his work from last week so I could practice at home. I said thanks, but it's now 2PM and she hasn't sent it. She also complained I'm not sending updates or pictures, first time in a while she's said that. She did mention they've been learning the Pledge of Allegiance at preschool, and that he knows a good portion. I'm going to practice that.... Oh, and for heaven's sake she dyed the hair grayish again. I have no idea how she'd pick that!
As for Saturday. A good day. No texts until a weird series began around 2:30, that I didn't see until around 3:15 as I took the dog out for a 2mi walk and came home to shower. She asked if I wanted to pick him up early, around 6 or 7, so she could go to a mentor meeting at the church Sun morning. I eventually said ok, but then she backtracked and said he was too tired and he stayed there. Sat night seems to be my recipe night, and I tried turkey burgers w/a Thai peanut sauce. Very good, very healthy! The only drawback is that the burgers practically fall apart with the peanut sauce and veggies in the turkey. I had it on a bun w/fries last night, tonight I'm having it by itself w/some rice and veggies.
CBT, thanks for the note. Those were my instincts as well, some sort of minor opening up. And let her keep coming to me. Keep doing what works, and don't put too much into it because things will dry up from time to time. Thanks to you as well Surfer. LT, always appreciate the encouragement. One thing I'm definitely looking out for is the temp check.
CT, damn! My W has just started using emojis again. My best friend's girlfriend is pretty young, and she has told me that emojis are used as a form of flirting now. W may be 32, but she's younger in social media age if that makes any sense lol. Yes, texting is pretty dangerous for affairs. So are those damn apps like Snapchat. As for the introvert comments, you're spot on. I'm getting better about not analyzing 5 minute moments for an hour ha.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
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