Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #3]

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FG - I am backing Surfer's two posts, Coly23, and It. Don't send it. You wrote it out of confusion, disappointment, anger, and fear. She will not care, it will not fix her, you cannot control her. OK? She will not care, it will not fix her, you cannot control her. Say that in you head again. Keep it there. Repeat it when needed.
Up & Down - it's life here. I have written many "letters" that will never be expressed. Some letters were in full and nothing changed. It feels good to write write it out though. Just keep it at that. I am a huge proponent of saying what you have to say if you feel you have to say it. But you must go into saying knowing - she will not care, it will not fix her, you cannot control here.

Hey, you are stronger than you know my friend. I believe in you. You are a great father and a great person. There are no martyrs here - only people who made mistakes, were part of joint mistakes, and suffer from the mistakes of others. There is no shame in trying to make right and move forward, only strength and that is the courage inside your heart.