It's not easy thinking of what your wife is doing. Hard to avoid updates about her because your kids tell you what's up. I'm happy you decided to not confront her. Your kids are priority. Don't jepardize losing them.
Your situation is similar to mine. My XW is not the person I married. That helps me disconnect with her so much. I wouldn't want someone like her in my life.
Your situation is farely new. I'm a year into it and no signs of XW seeing her wrongs.
Your relationship with your kids will Be so strong after all this. That is your goal. Save them from a crisis life. Let your Wife figure it out all by herself.
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015
