Thanks for the checking in Coly! Yea I am definitely off the strict DB'ing path now. Funny you mention that because I was thinking about that yesterday and meant to add it to my post. Maybe she is waiting for me to make the first move though I think that would be pretty unfair if that is the case. With the long weekend coming up, we should be able to talk soon. I understand why there shouldn't be an R talk at the beginning, it scares them away, they already told you that the relationship is over. They don't want to rehash it over and over. I figured that out before I even came here. But now things are different, it would not scare her off. I really do need to read DR again. Last time I read it, my situation and my mind was in a totally different spot.
I did get pics and videos from that amusement park. ugh... i love that place. I still think it was the right move not to go. Though I would have loved seeing my niece.
