It's not an easy process Gr8tdad, it's a blessing we found this forum to express ourselves.

Zeus, it makes me happy you checked in and are still here. You are among the people I miss advice from the most. I definitely am past the anger toward ExW. It has become frustration at myself for holding out hope for whatever reason it may be.

And there was a post you made quite awhile ago, I do t remeber who's thread it was, however it stuck with me. What kind of person would intentionally become involved with a married person, and more importantly what kind of married person would look outside the marriage instead of in, but most important, what kind of person holds onto that person that hurt them so badly. I'm paraphrasing but that was the jist of it. It always stuck with me.

Glad to meet you new people and glad to hear fro. You Zeus. It's like an old friend I lost touch with for awhile.


The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.