Gr8TDAD- "My wife is a runner. Meaning, she has a tendency to take off when things get too difficult. She throws in the towel. Either it is too intense or scary for her or she just gets impatient."
Yep mine too... nice name change by the way. It took me a few to connect the dots.
I got a few weeks notice before my WW moved out (via a text message before a huge meeting at work... she couldn't have waited 2 hrs.. thank you very much). I avoided her like the plague in the interim which actually worked out quite well for my sanity. I would try to stay as busy as possible, definitely don't help her move out. Funny my experience was the opposite of Andrew's. I also said I didn't care what she took (which was a mistake!) and she barely took anything.
The one piece of good news I can give you is that for me... the out of house sep has been a much better experience than in house. Stay strong!