Hi Elly, I think your text response sounded fine. I became mistress of the brief responses to XH - always pleasant, but minimal - That's fine with me thanks. Great smile. All good thanks etc...

As for detaching....the lovely V once posted that it helps not to think about 'detaching from them' because that still becomes all about them. Try and think more about 'attaching to your own life' - ie: building up what you have going on in your life, so that you become more attached to other things and people. If you do this, and leave him to live his own life, that is the best way I think.

So, tell us more about how you are re-attaching to your life lovely Elly..... :)xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus