So we had the chat. Mostly biz about schedules and what she is taking to her apartment. She will be moving between labor day and the weekend after.
I stuck to supportive statements, validating statements, etc. Said I was trying to understand what she is doing...etc.
I didnt cry. I didnt break down. Quite stoic if you ask me. I brought boxes from work. She doesn't want me to help her move.
Ummm, not much else? She broke down a couple times asking me why I never listened to her or understood how painful it was to be with me. Also said she needs to find herself.
She is not reachable right now but I feel like I planted the seed. My therpist thinks she is going to crash and burn eventually and maybe realize that this wasn't an unfixable situation.
I have no expectations and if she never comes back well then I did what I could on my side. No regrets?
