From what you described in the text it sounds like it's a little progress
Stay the course!
You are doing exactly what you need to. Let her initiate. Let her text more than you. Let her be the one to ask the questions
You get the drift
Just know that when she goes "colder" you need to just continue to do what you are doing. Don't let her get to you in that regard. That's why the detaching is so imporant. Fake it to you make it philosophy goes a long way here:)
Good job. Kept it up


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it