MLC, WAW or WW?? Who really knows? Help...pls

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2 Jobs and the calling to help others that are hurting and lost? Wow, I'm so glad you viewed my thread! Are you a nurse at the hospital?

I really don't have much more to add for now. I do want to read your thoughts on this. I'm sure from there we can move further. I have suspected MLC for some time now. I've read up on MLC not just on this board but also on a few others. I have learned a lot here and have put a lot of the advice given here to use. I've also read MWD's book DB and implemented what I picked up there as well. I have focused a lot on Sandi2 and HB's knowledge since I'm leaning toward a WW with MLC. I'm just not sure about WAW as she has threatened to leave but hasn't yet,,, though I do think it is coming. Probably sooner than later. I'm not a religious person but I'm a faithful follower of Christ. To whom I've turned to the most recently. I've tried putting this all in His hands but that also includes detaching, which easier said than done.

Ironically W has always been the pillar of faith in our home and has done so much for our community. However, W has almost abandoned her faith, rarely attends church anymore and during some of her spewing has mocked and been openly critical of God and Christ. I was shocked the 1st time and have asked her to stop on other occasions. Just not her. Really bizarre.

Anyway, my original plan was to stand throughout her MLC if in fact that is the root of what is going on. But I don't think I can out last this thing. Especially with a S and D as she wants. OM is still in the picture and I'm sure something will develop officially there and go public. I do think she has gone PA but I have no proof of that. Only a gut feeling based on very personal information about her I know but choose not to share.

The crazy thing is, I do get a feeling that her A with OM has changed its dynamics. She is still heavily involved w/him. In fact she is out with him and other friends right now having drinks. Yes, I was taunted with that this morning. Part of my earlier venting. Anyway, she has a string of men contacting her regularity. Maybe I'm just overthinking this, very probable. But she has mentioned 1 person I know well since he's coached my kids in rec league sports. She's been hanging out with him when he's around and I'm not and all of a sudden seems to know a lot more about him. I found that curious so I tested the waters and mentioned nonchalantly during one of her conversations about him that he had a GF to which she abruptly spun around and contested my comments in a very defensive manner. I left it alone and told her that I liked him and left it at that. So she is definitely wayward. Also, though she taunts me with current OM, I have noticed on a couple recent times I've shown obvious anger about their R she would storm off in a rage then within a few minutes while still angry will really give an honest effort to prove that she is not pursuing him. I just don't get it. A lot of this just doesn't make any sense to me.

I hope your evening goes well

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