Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #3]

[ForGump]

Thank you-- although it's so simple, just reading you-all's supportive messages mean a lot to me.

I think if my W made a good faith effort to *collaboratively* resolve our marital problems, I would be at peace to let her go find her happiness elsewhere.

I just don't think she has done that. In her mind, she struggled for years, but she did it all by herself, in her own head. That's not enough. Not for me.