OFP -> Unstuck -> On with life

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OFP,

Just a thought .
Forgiving her is for you.
Not her.
Not necassarily to get back together.
You may feel strength now holding to the anger and frustration of all she has caused in your perception.
Resentment is a heavy weight to carry for a long time.

What happens if gf decides it is not going to work out?
Will you just choose to stay alone because you prefer it?
Is there a reason that time with gf is so important now?

Part of the challenge with being with any guys, is a total lack of things in common. I don't watch TV, or have anything to do with sports, or hunting and fishing. Doesn't leave much for subjects to talk about

I don't watch much tv. Have not followed sports in years.
I don't hunt. I don't fish.
I like to talk about other stuff.
I think you get my point.
And the point Zeus is making.


Don't stop the healing process just because you are in another state of feeling comfortable.

Heed some of the advice being shared.
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say your future self will benefit from it.

Just my 2c.