lt0402-- just popped in here to thank you for your support on my thread. To be honest I can only remember bits and pieces of your situation, esp. now that my head is buzzing from my confrontation w/ my WW. One thing that has been evolving in my head is that I think we LBH's tend to over-criticize and over-apologize for our roles in a failing/failed marriage.

I now feel that I was pretty damn decent husband. Unless you had a drug addiction or you had an EA/PA yourself or you were violent w/ your W, I think we shouldn't self flagellate. Being insensitive is not grounds for D. It's grounds for two mature adults to talk and work out problems.

Trying to grow a backbone,
--FG

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final