Coly - I'm pretty sure I cried for my first session too. And yes my DB coach told me some sort of friendship is good. And actually my W told me when we first separated that she wanted to be friends and possibly build on that. We jumped into a relationship when we began dating and weren't "friends long enough" according to W now. So I too am working on being friendly but not friends!! So no activities out of Family ones and or personal talk - for me at least.
