Okay...now maybe...

Take away anything that puts the blame onto her for ANYTHING, and focus only on you. What you can allow, what you are comfortable with...

Maybe....

I am not comfortable with not having contact information. so that you can be reached in the event of an emergency.

If you continue to do this, I want you to know that you will not be contacted, if anything were to happen...


It's just a little twist, yet enough to let her know that you are not trying to punish her, you are only standing up for what you can live with.

I will try to find some more things later to help you...

and I hope that ^^^ makes some sense....