When you meet w/ her do you just talk to her about the kids, or are you delving into more husbandly/friendly conversation? Have you tried only limiting your contact with her to kids/scheduling type dialogue? I'm curious to see what triggered her reaching out to you a month ago?
From other's stories, it seems to happen when they are becoming detached and their Ws perceive it. The Ws seem to reach out at that point to pull the LBS back into their zone of control. Seems to be what your W was doing a month ago and when she realized you were still available, she went back to being short and talking about D.
Just my 2 cents. And know that I'm nowhere near being qualified to give advice here. Just seems like something was working and triggered her to reach out. Seems like you should identify what that was, if it was something you did, and continue doing it.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
