I think I was wrong to question her commitment to our kids. I mean, I honestly do question it, but I don't think that's a good thing to express to anyone.

So, do I owe her an apology?

Or do I stick to my guns, that the choices she's making ARE bad for our kids.

Is there some middle ground?

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final