Didn't see the second post....

Please understand, that boundaries are for you, and not to punish another person....

They are about what you are willing to either tolerate, or not tolerate.

So, lets say....

That she is going out with friends for the evening and you have zero clue where, when and what time that she will be home...

What would be your boundary for that ??



Also, enforcing the boundary is the most important part of a boundary....

If not enforced, they will become more empty words from the LBS...