Hi Rouky, I hear you on the friend front. I cringe when I hear of divorcee's speaking so ill of their ex's. It's true, they haven't done the work and cant see the big picture. It's very very sad actually. I think they are missing out on some of life's biggest lessons. I also cringe when I hear "happily" married people bicker and blame. They are missing some crucial elements about what they bring to the table. Uch... I just want to help them!
But enough about them.... You are amazing Rouky. I know you've been down a tough road and are coming out the other side. There's so much light there!
Have you read up on post traumatic growth? It's essentially what we're all dealing with here... But it's nice to have a little more insight into it.
Enjoy your day!
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16