The Fight for Self II

[CT1118]

So I guess cut to the chase...what I posted above was a feeling of course. But... what advice/success has anyone had w/ communicating hard issues to W in this sitch? I have read enough to know - the WW and/or MLC is not aware nor concerned w/ the pain they cause others. However, this question is about me or any future M or R.

How can I effectively communicate to her how damaging it is to bring her OM around our s4 right now - especially for a sleep over. He was so confused last night, proven by his questions to me this morning about why mommy and daddy are not together. Of course, do it calmly, show no emotion or judgement - yes, I get that. Other than just stating the facts of the matter and how detrimental and long lasting I think this could be - who has had success communicating something like this and how did it go?

(if you know my story, you know I have already addressed this with her a few times, but evidence only tells me this was the 2nd time s4 met this guy).

Thanks